Me ranting again

I am getting old or what? I will get affected by ppl words easily nowadays..

Like example 'I do not know what you do for e whole day!', 'You are like not busy, just acting busy', 'When you stay back till late, I do not know what you are doing' and alot more.. I get so pissed off..

Alot of times, I tell myself to calm down but whenever I think of it, I feel so angry again..

When someone say others turn their words, did they think tat they are doing tat too? Tell me something and in e end, turn out to be something else.. Get so tired of doing everything..
It just feel tat whatever I have done, it is not being appreciated here.. Maybe I am not an actress who can get busy but get 'praised' instead. When I am busy with so many things undone, I try to do but in end, I got scolded instead..